This is a brief editorial on a pressing issue in United States culture: Sexual Purity.
A February 2012 NY Times article “Young Mothers Describe Marriage’s Fading Allure,” suggests the attraction of marriage is not what it once was for many young mothers.
My heart broke at the resounding theme of this article: women do not trust men. What a sad thing, but is that surprising in a society where dating produces children more often than fathers?
Traditional marriage was a cultural standard in the US, but that is changing. According to the article cited above, the national figure for children born outside of marriage is 53%.
Premarital sex and child birth are now normative.
The basic unit of society is the family, which is being crippled by cultural practices of casual sex.
I would like to propose a partial solution to this epidemic problem can be found in Scripture:
“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”-Hebrews 13:4 ESV
Men in our society are failing women at a basic moral level.
Sure, there’s enough guilt to go around, but according to scripture, God made men to lead.
Leaders are trend setters, so to alter a trend, leaders must act first.
A paradigm shift is required to change what is happening in our culture.
I argue that the weight of it lies on the shoulders of men first.
If we want to see change as a culture, men need to commit to sexual purity in all categories at all levels.
Imagine the change created by a situation where women did not feel pressured to have sex before marriage?
Imagine the respect inherently communicated in that situation.
How would that change things?
I think it would change a lot of things.
Please join me this week in praying for the sexual purity of the men you know.
In 2007 while browsing through a Christian bookstore I found a movie that touched my life. The movie was Facing the Giants. I resisted the movie at first because it is a football movie, and being a geek means I am not really much of a sports fan. But I gave the movie a chance, and I am glad I did, that movie touched my life and encouraged me to put God first once again in my life.
Sherwood Pictures, the group that created the movie, just came out with another movie this month in theaters called Courageous: Honor Begins at Home.
The message of the movie is an important one. It focuses on the man’s responsibility to his children and wife, and how important that relationship is. The men in the movie are like any of us, imperfect fathers from all walks of life. Men who suck at being a father and men who are doing a good enough job. The men get to a point in their life where they decide “good enough” is not really good enough, and they seek to change.
Stephen Kendrick, one of the movie’s producers stated the mission they have for the movie during an interview. He said “We want to challenge men to forgive their dads, their dads wounded them, or provided poor example for them. And them seek God as their father and then step up to spiritual leadership. We can change the world if we can get dads to step up and disciple and lead this next generation.”
The story is very engaging and emotional for all audiences. There is action, humor, tragedy, and redemption. The characters are very believable and the actors are good. Despite the fact that this movie is made by a church congregation, it has all the elements and look of a Hollywood blockbuster, but with a strong Christian message.
I went to the movie during a weekday so there were not a lot of people there, maybe a dozen or so sitting all around me. Throughout the movie, in every direction, were people laughing, and even sobbing. (I was too, but don’t tell anybody) That tells me the entire audience really engaged and connected with characters and the story in a deeply emotional way.
Go see it!
Courageous, I would say, is an epic film. You need to see it. The message given make this far exceed any entertainment available today. It will encourage families to take a more courageous stand in their family, even if it is not easy. It will encourage men to want to do the right thing in their marriages and with their children, and will show them how it is possible.
After seeing the movie, get the book. There are two books, The Resolution for Men, and a companion book The Resolution for Women. I have The Resolution for Men at home sitting at the top of my book pile, so I will be reading it soon. As soon as I finish it I will write a review for you guys. However, based on the quality of Biblical work Sherwood puts out I would say you do not need to wait for my review to get the book and read it.
If anybody has read The Resolution for Women, please write a small review and send it to us. Email it to Info@EternalTruthMinistry.com.
What are your thoughts?
Have you seen the movie yet? What are your thoughts? Post a comment below telling me how this movie has impacted you and your family!